Saying Goodbye

Well. I had this whole post written up about how difficult it was to say goodbye on the day that my husband left for Afghanistan. But I decided to wait to post it, because of OPSEC. He's now to his destination safely, but I still have to decided to not post that original thing I wrote. It was pretty long, emo, and no one would have wanted to read it. In short, it was the hardest day of my life to date. The best word I can use to describe how I feel now is surreal. I dreaded it for about 6 years and then it finally happened. Kind of like when you wonder for years what it will be like to be married and then you're standing there with your new husband, having just walked back down the aisle hand-in-hand and you're like Wow, we're married. I'm left here thinking Wow, he's actually deployed now. 

This little comic sums up how the goodbye was:
Right now, a year seems like a really long time.


  1. Goodbyes, especially deployment goodbyes are really hard. I hope you're doing okay. I'm keeping y'all in my thoughts.*

  2. It is so hard to say goodbye :( I hope that time will pass quickly for you and he will be home before you know it.

  3. I think my connection may have timed out- I meant to write this before, let me try again: My husband is a young officer as well and he will be deployed later this year...your blog is inspiring though, thank you for sharing :)

    1. Thanks for the encouraging comment Chrissy. :) And thank you for your husband's service. God Bless.


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